Thus, eligible employees will be able to take FMLA leave to care for their lawfully married same-sex spouse with a serious health condition; qualifying emergency leave due to their lawfully married same-sex spouse's covered military service; and military caregiver leave for their lawfully married same-sex spouse.
It is important to further note that common law marriage is valid marriage within the meaning of the FMLA, but partners in civil unions or domestic partnerships are not protected under the FMLA.
Finally, eligible employees may take FMLA leave to care for a stepchild as well as FMLA leave to care for a stepparent who is a same-sex spouse of the eligible employee's parent.
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